Anonymous

Gʊʏs I ʀɛaʟʟʏ ռɛɛɖ ʊʀ ɦɛʟք😕ɨ'ʋɛ ɮɛɛռ ɖatɨռɢ ɖɨs ɢʊʏ ʄօʀ 1ʏɛaʀ ռ 5ʍօռtɦs aʄtɛʀ օʊʀ aռռɨʋɛʀsaʀʏ աɛ ɮʀօҡɛ ʊք💔ɦɛ ʀɛaʟʟʏ ʟօʋɛs ʍɛ sօ aʍ ɨ ɦɛ ɛʋɛռ ɨռtʀօɖʊċɛɖ ʍɛ tօ ɦɨs ʄaʍɨʟʏ👪tɦɛ քʀօɮʟɛʍ I ɮʀօҡɛ ʊք աɨtɦ ɦɨʍ ɨs tɦat աɦɛռ աɛ ʄɨɢɦt ɦɛ աօʊʟɖ ɮɛat ʍɛ I ʀɛaʟʟʏ ʟօʋɛ ɦɨs sօ ʍʊċɦ💞.ɛʋɛռ ռօա ɦɛ ҡɛɛքs օռ ċaʟʟɨռɢ ,tɛxtɨռɢ ռ ċօʍɨռɢ tօ ʍʏ ҡasɨ🏡 I ɖօռ't ҡռօա աat tօ ɖօ. Pʟʐ ɦɛʟք 😥😥

8 hours, 16 minutes ago
NeYo

Dear thats pure blackmail he cnt put u under pressure to have sex with him .Having sexual intercourse with your partner has 2 be 2 sided if u dont want he can't force u or blackmail u into doing something u not comfortable in .If his using his leg as a reason to make you feel bad then maybe his just not the one because if you love someone there is no need to proof it or justify your actions or how u truly feel. If he doesnt respect your choice den I'm sorry to tell you des but you better of withought him bcz now all you ever feel is guilty and you shouldn't be feeling that way!!

19 hours, 37 minutes ago
Karetsow

Hello Sisters I'm new here I'm in a relationship with a who has a wife and a baby.Two months before we got in a relationship he just got married traditionally to the girl.The girl stays in at Jo'burg and he stays here in Pretoria though I and him also stay distance apart. His family knows me he actually introduced me as his second wife to be the guy is turning 29 the wife is 25 and their daughter is 12months old and I'm turning 20years... I tried distancing myself from him for over 3months now but he still keeps on calling...WhatsApp me to tell me all about how he miss me and how he loves me...i believe I'm too young to be in such a relationship I mean I don't wanna be in a polygamy marriage...I love this guy but the thought of being he's no.2 is giving me second thoughts.... Please help what should I do...?😥

1 day, 7 hours ago

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Lee

Babe uu too young ..smart and beautiful ..you can't settle for that kind of life ..you deserve better than what he's giving you ..the fact that he introduced uu to his family mustn't make you happy coz he'll keep on introducing girls to his family ..Mina ii advice you to leave him ..yes it won't be easy now but it'll be worth it in the end ..you'll find a good looking and loving guy with no kid and who is willing to make ui his only wife

1 day, 2 hours ago
Anonymous

Hy guys I'm new here It depends if he actually ever gave u a reason to ever doubt him.Trust is one of the most important factors in a relationship .sometimes we as girls can be paranoid just give it time and only than will you know if theres actually a reason to doubt him

2 days ago

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Karetsow

I agree with u If u get in a relationship take your brain along with you and use it

1 day, 8 hours ago
Anonymous

Hai girls im in a relationship with this guy for 4 years and I want to break up with him coz I just don't love him any more ,help done nothing wrong but I just don't have that feeling I use to have so I don't know how to tell this guy that I don't love him any more. ...please help me

3 days, 16 hours ago

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Karetsow

Tell him how you feel.Tell him all about the good times you had explain how you feel now and how u lost the spark it might help to figure out a way to bring it back but if it doesn't help you gonna have to move on 😉

1 day, 8 hours ago
barbie

am in a relationship with some guy I do love him yes...but I love my ex boyfriend more and he is in a relationship with another girl how do I move on please help

5 days, 14 hours ago

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MissP

hi barbie I can only advice u to be true to yourself and be honest to ur self with what you want. listen to your heart and make the right decision but most of all. PRAY!

5 days, 1 hour ago
Anonymous

my boyfriend used to show me love like he did everything for me nd I'm sure he was loyal things where really good between us... I got pregnant nd he was exited about the baby...up until I gave birth then he changed... he ignored me and he's inlove with another chick... our baby is now 3 months and he only saw her once since she was born he don't text or call to check up on her bby...I'm.confused what changed him. sadly I love him nd I try to forget about him but I can't when I try to do so good memories come up...what should I do to forget about him....

5 days, 18 hours ago
Anonymous

hi

5 days, 18 hours ago
Anonymous

Hey guys i am new....i have a boyfriend and we have a 6 month old son together but at times it feel that he doeabt want ne anymore coz his always on his phone....chating with other girls but when i am chating with other guys or talking to other huys he gts jealous and angry....so i dont know if he is cheating or what...how do i foud out?? What should i do

6 days, 17 hours ago

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Nerdy_NcKay98

I think you should sit down with your bae and try to fox your relationship if he's cheating ask him to come clean so that you can find a way to make your relationship work. But if he wants out, let it be

5 days, 20 hours ago
Anonymous

Hi uhm. I'm in a relationship with an older guy. I love him & all that but idk if he actually feels da same way bout me. I'm always da first to text & call him. He never even bother to ask how I'm doing & he never even check up on me. & when I'm offline by WhatsApp then he accuses me of cheating or that I'm chatting elsewhere. He never even tell me bout da females that's texting or calling him but when other guys text me then he gets jealous & starts accusing me of cheating behind his back. He claims that I'm always keeping stuff from him which ain't tru. I tell him everything but he doesn't do da same with me. We barely even c each other & idk if he still wanna b with me. I sometimes feel like I'm being a pest & a nuisance around him. What shud I do??? I'm confused

1 week, 1 day ago

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barbie

ur bae is cheating on u ey...u should just see from his insecurity

5 days, 14 hours ago
Anonymous

Darling that guy jst shows how much he doesnt trust you because you can't live your life to please some one and actually change yourself just because you love him. I say follow your heart but dont forget to carry your brain with

2 days ago
rosegreshams601

I love this guy but I'm not sure about him wen w Ever i see him i just blush and I'm not sure if he likes or love me

1 week, 2 days ago
Anonymous

Hi guys im new year ....ii need help thre are this guy neh i liked it been 3yr from now he use to like me neh but ii had a b.f....After a year ii told myself im folling inlove wif this guy so ii dump my b.f ..That guy have a g.f neh but ii gave my V to him we had sex more than once but ii realy dont know now coz ii feel guilty for having sex wif him ....but ii realy love him an im sure ii feel something for me 2 ....Laast week he went to visit his girl wen he come back ii was angry ii cal me an sade ii must come over firts we were smoking weed after words we had sex .....ii realy dont know what to do jooh feeling im been used al this tim can u help me befor its to late.......plz guys

1 week, 4 days ago

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Anonymous

Its bad girl I think it would be better for you to leave the guy cause he's just using you

1 week, 4 days ago
Jessy

Pleas dont Judge me....like ii sayed im kak inlove wif him ....his my one an only

1 week, 4 days ago
Jessy

What wil u do if u were in mha shoes....that why ii need your help

1 week, 4 days ago
Beauvey

Hy u uhm I was i n your same situation but I am not judging you but to give your V to him that shy his using you because he got wat he wanted a along just to have sex with you and now whoes lost was it yours he stole your golden crown so leave him that's the advice I can give sorry girl will pray for you💖

1 week, 1 day ago
zoe

the best thing is to do self introspection. Where do u or rather the two of u see in the future together. Ask him where to from here so u know where you stand rather than finding out later thhat you are just wasting ur tym.

1 week ago
Jessy

Thanks guys for tha advice ....When tha firts time that happened is was weak....but it been 2weeks from now ignored him we lived in tha same street is not easy coz wen ii come out of mha house or go to tha shop ii bumped into him...Friday he stop me and ask whats going on ii just ignore him it easn't easy but ii try mha best ....thanks to u!!!!¡

6 days, 16 hours ago
MissP

u really have to leave him with immediate effect. he's using u sister girl. u deserve better!

5 days, 16 hours ago
Bunny

Hello. I've been seeing this guy for 3 months now. He's only 3 years older than me. He is financially stable, not that I'm with him for his money. He takes me out and stuff. The guy had an accident whilst he was younger and they amputated his leg. So he wants us to have sex and I'm still a Virgin so I refused and he said that I don't want to sleep with him because he doesn't have a leg. I tried to explain everything to him but he's so convinced that if I truly love him then I'll have sex with him. Should I leave him? Does he love me?

1 week, 5 days ago
AVELAH

Yae it true some guys really love and some of them just want to make you a bone..if everyone was the same with love in this world we wouldn't have Ex's

2 weeks, 1 day ago
cheese_and_fatcakes

most likely we ladies mistaken males actions to love/like ...sometimes it falls under an individuals personality to treat his surroundings gentle and right just be careful on whom you let in.

2 weeks, 3 days ago
Babatjie

Yes Lady's if a guy truely loves yOu he wouldn't change yOu for the world..☺

2 weeks, 3 days ago

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gugulethu

true tht gal he won't even settle for less 2 be wit ad show u love

2 weeks, 2 days ago
Anonymous

hi I know I might be young but I crcly like this boy in.my class and cant stop thinking about him **** plz help**** what can I do???

2 weeks, 3 days ago

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Anonymous

Try and tell him and see if he feels the same way __ life has changed now girls can approach boys and it not a bad thing

2 weeks, 3 days ago
Queen_Nipho19

Hey Everyone so now I started dating this guy last year in December on the 1st. I'm doing grade 12 and he's doing grade 11 but he's older than me ( he's a year old) So now that we've been dating for 2 months now I have lost interest in him and whenever I see him I feel annoyed. Then there is a guy from school he's my brother's friend and he's 18 years old meaning I'm a year older than him and we've been flirting for 2 years now. And everytime I see this guy at school I fall in love without him over again and we share a lot of things together. I told him about my relationship and he's disappointed too much to the point that he told me that I should make up my mind because he thought of making Mr his girlfriend because we've been flirting for two years, so I'm confused please help me.

3 weeks ago

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Bunny

I think you should follow your heart. If you leave your current boyfriend for this guy, he should also forgive you and be with you. If he doesn't forgive you, then you're just his vibing mate.

1 week, 5 days ago
MissP

Be true to yourself! ull go far

5 days, 16 hours ago
Anonymous

There's this guy that I love and I'm sure that he likes me too the only problem is he's taken and seem to be very happy in his relationship please anyone help me it's been 3 years now I don't know what to do

3 weeks ago
Cutee

There's this guy that I love and I'm sure that he likes me too the only problem is he's taken and seem to be very happy in his relationship please anyone help me it's been 3 years now I don't know what to do

3 weeks ago

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Anonymous

Joooh girly im in the same problem you are in jare neh were need help .. But my friends told me that if he talk to me ii must play hard to get or chase suma one of his friends but im in that point to give up

3 weeks ago
Anonymous

Hey Girls I'll advice you to leave him and move on with your life, you cannot wait for three years for someone to prove that he loves you and the worst part he's seeing someone else , it'd would be better if he was single at least you could try to work things out with him.

2 weeks, 6 days ago